Complete Wedding Checklist: 200+ Tasks Month by Month [2026/2027]

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In summary: Organizing a wedding means coordinating dozens of vendors, managing a budget that often exceeds €35,000, and meeting the expectations of entire families. This checklist provides you with the 60+ essential tasks, in the correct order, from 12 months before to D-Day - including attention points that wedding planners don't always share.

12 months before: laying the foundations

A wedding takes an average of 14 months to plan in France. Starting 12 months before is the minimum for high season weddings (May-September). For a Saturday in June or July at a popular venue, some halls are booked 18 to 24 months in advance.

12 MONTHS BEFORE
Define your overall budget The budget is the foundational decision for everything else. Before visiting venues or contacting photographers, you need to have a clear - and realistic - envelope.
Establish the guest list (version 1) Create three categories: "Absolutely", "Ideally", "If possible". Each guest costs €200 to €350 on average.
Set a date (or 2-3 options) Check the availability of close relatives and the impact of the season on the price.
Contact the town hall for the civil ceremony Book your slot 6 to 12 months in advance for summer dates.

In France, the average wedding budget is €35,000, but the range extends from €8,000 (intimate wedding for 30 people) to over €80,000 (150 people in a chateau). The region plays a huge role: the same services cost 30 to 50% more in Île-de-France than in the provinces.

The key figure

73% of couples exceed their initial estimate. You must plan for 10% of the total as an unforeseen reserve - it will be used. Anticipating this risk already halves it.

Recommended budget breakdown

Item Budget share
Caterer 30-35%
Venue 15-20%
Photo / video 10-15%
Outfits 8-12%
Flowers and decoration 6-10%
Music 5-7%
Stationery and gifts 3-5%
Contingency 10%

The impact of the day of the week on price

Day / Season Impact on venue price
Saturday high season (May-Sept.) Maximum rate
Friday or Sunday -10 to 20%
Tuesday or Wednesday -20 to 40%
Low season (Oct.-March) Additional -20 to 30%

The calculation that changes everything

A Tuesday in November at the same venue as a Saturday in July can cost €3,000 to €6,000 less. This single decision can fund your photographer.

Town hall documents to prepare

  • Identity documents for both future spouses
  • Proof of residence
  • Birth certificates less than 3 months old (6 months if born abroad)
  • Names and contact details of your 2 to 4 witnesses

10 months before: booking key vendors

This is the critical period. The best vendors for summer Saturdays go fast - very fast. Do not postpone these bookings.

10 MONTHS BEFORE
Visit and book the reception venue Visit at least 3 venues. Check capacity, vendor flexibility, contractual terms.
Select and book the caterer 35-40% of the budget. Request a tasting menu before signing.
Book the photographer (and videographer) Check full wedding galleries, not just highlights.
Book the DJ or musicians Good wedding DJs are booked as early as photographers.

What to evaluate during each venue visit

Practical aspects:

  • Exact seated capacity (not just cocktail)
  • Freedom to choose your own vendors
  • Kitchen access, parking, setup hours
  • Nearby accommodations
  • Amplified music cutoff time
  • Other weddings scheduled the same weekend

Contractual aspects:

  • Cancellation and postponement policy
  • What's included in the price (furniture, sound system, lighting, cleaning)
  • Deposit amount and conditions
Absolute rule: never pay a deposit without a signed and reviewed contract, even for a vendor recommended by a loved one.

What your caterer's quote should detail

  • Price per person including VAT, drinks included or not
  • Number of servers (recommended ratio: 1 for 8-10 guests)
  • Special menus: vegetarian, vegan, gluten-free, halal, kosher
  • Wedding cake included or extra
  • Crockery, glassware, tablecloth rental - included or not
  • Guaranteed hours of presence and cost of overtime

Photographer: 2026 price ranges

Package Price range
Photographer only €1,500 to €3,500+
Photographer + videographer (2 vendors) €3,000 to €7,000+
One photo + video vendor €2,500 to €5,000+
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8 months before: launching communications

8 MONTHS BEFORE
Send out save-the-dates 8 months before for summer, 6 months before for the rest of the year. Essential if guests are coming from far away.
Open the wedding list or money pot The average gift per guest is €80 to €120. Calibrate with items at different price points.
Start thinking about the secular ceremony (if applicable) Officiant, readings, rituals - now's the time to consider these.

6 months before: outfits

6 MONTHS BEFORE
Order the wedding dress 3-6 fittings + 3-5 months for manufacturing + 4-8 weeks for alterations. Don't delay.
Choose the groom's outfit Recommended to buy a quality, reusable suit. Rent for a specific tuxedo.
Order the wedding rings Allow 6 to 8 weeks for personalized or engraved wedding rings.

What to bring to dress fittings

The underwear you'll wear on D-Day, shoes with the final heel height, and a trusted person - but not too many people. Conflicting opinions paralyze decisions.

4 months before: stationery and decoration

4 MONTHS BEFORE
Send out invitations Include: date, addresses, RSVP with deadline 6 weeks before, practical information (hotels, parking, transport).
First meeting with the florist Bring a mood board. State your budget upfront.
Finalize all decorations Identify what the venue provides, rent large items, be realistic about DIY.
Book hairdresser and makeup artist Schedule a trial 2-3 months before the wedding.

Wedding flower price ranges

Service Range
Bridal bouquet only €150 to €400
Complete package (bouquet, boutonnière, arch, centerpieces) €1,500 to €5,000+

Flower budget tip

Seasonal flowers cost 2 to 4 times less than the same flowers out of season. Discuss with your florist seasonal alternatives that match your aesthetic. Peonies in June cost €3 a stem. In December, they're €12.

3 months before: logistics

3 MONTHS BEFORE
Confirm all vendors in writing Confirmation email: date, time, address, total amount, deposits paid.
Start the seating plan Wait until you have 90% of the RSVPs. Prioritize affinities, not etiquette.
Arrange guest accommodation Negotiate a group rate with 1-2 nearby hotels.
Hair and makeup trial Take photos in different lighting to validate the look.

Golden rules for the seating plan

  • Wait until you have at least 90% of RSVPs
  • Prioritize affinities, not family etiquette
  • Elderly guests near the entrance and restrooms, away from speakers
  • Plan 2 "buffer" seats for last-minute contingencies

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1 month before D-day: the home stretch

1 MONTH BEFORE
Close RSVPs and finalize guest count Follow up with late responders personally. This is the number you'll give to the caterer.
Provide special diets to the caterer Complete list of allergies, intolerances, and dietary restrictions.
Prepare vendor envelopes Exact amounts, pre-labeled. Most vendors expect to be paid on D-day.
Organize ceremony rehearsal Essential for secular ceremonies. Plan for 2 weeks before with witnesses and officiant.
Finalize and print the seating plan Last modifications, then final printing.

1 week before D-day: the finishing touches

1 WEEK BEFORE
Reconfirm each vendor "Hello [first name], I confirm our appointment for [date] at [time] at [address]. See you very soon!"
Distribute detailed D-day schedule Hour-by-hour document sent to all vendors AND main witnesses.
Prepare the emergency kit This kit can literally save your day.
Pick up outfits Check the finishes. Hang the dress in a place where it won't crease.

The complete emergency kit

White thread + needles
Safety pins
Double-sided tape
Painkillers
Tissues
Pocket deodorant
Compact mirror
Sugar-free chewing gum
Band-aids
Phone charger

The D-day schedule must contain

  • Arrival time of each vendor
  • Civil and religious/secular ceremony timing
  • Duration and time of cocktail hour
  • Room entry and dinner plan
  • Planned speeches and indicative durations
  • End time

D-day: the ultimate checklist

THE MORNING
Full breakfast You probably won't have a real meal break until evening.
Confirm hairdresser / makeup artist schedule A text message is enough.
The emergency kit is accessible Entrusted to a trusted witness.
BEFORE THE CEREMONY
A witness has the rings Check. Then double-check.
Speeches are printed and distributed Entrusted to the speakers.
5 minutes alone or as a couple Take a moment to anchor this moment. It's your day.
AT THE RECEPTION
Designate an "emergency manager" A trusted person who handles logistical problems for you - not you.
Eat something Even a little. You're the first to forget to eat at your own wedding.
Thank your vendors personally A sincere word makes a difference.

The most important advice

Delegate. On D-day, your only role is to enjoy every second. Everything else - emergencies, logistics, delays - must be handled by your witnesses and your designated trusted person.

Wedding checklist FAQ

When should I start planning my wedding?

Ideally between 12 and 18 months before for a wedding in high season (May-September). The reasonable minimum is 9 months. Below 6 months, you'll need to significantly simplify the initial vision as the most sought-after vendors will often be unavailable.

Can you organize a beautiful wedding in 6 months?

Yes, but with constraints. The most sought-after vendors will often be unavailable. Prioritize the venue, caterer, and photographer - these have the longest lead times. Consider a weekday or off-season wedding to maximize your chances.

What's the first thing to do when you get engaged?

Define your overall budget and guest count range. Everything else directly stems from this: the type of venue, caterer choice, decoration style, and number of vendors.

How to not forget anything in wedding preparations?

By using a centralized checklist accessible from your phone, which you and your partner consult regularly. The Nupty app offers a complete wedding checklist integrated into the schedule and budget, for €14.90 lifetime access.

Do you absolutely need a wedding planner?

No. A professional wedding planner costs between €2,000 and €8,000. Applications like Nupty allow you to centralize all organization for €14.90 lifetime access, while maintaining control over every decision. A wedding planner remains relevant for very ambitious weddings or if you completely lack time.

Conclusion

Organizing a wedding is one of the most complex projects of your life - and one of the most beautiful. The key: start early, be methodical, and centralize everything in one place so nothing gets lost.

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